Goal Setting Help your kids make their biggest dreams come true

"Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?"
"That depends a good deal on where you want to get to,"
said the Cat.
"I don’t much care where..." said Alice.
"Then it doesn’t matter which way you go," said the Cat.
"...so long as I get SOMEWHERE," Alice added as an explanation.
"Oh, you’re sure to do that," said the Cat, "if you only walk long enough."

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Goal Setting for Kids

Why is it important to set goals for kids?

Goal setting is important to your children because:

Kids who have dreams (goals) – whether sporting or academic or even personal ones – will do better in life than kids with no plan at all. So teach your children the necessity of goal setting and how to actually do it.  Get interested in their interests and if appropriate, help them set their own goals to achieve. 

Children are naturally great goal-setters. They just call them dreams. They see the heroic acts of Firefighters or the exciting world of the jet pilot and that's what they want to be 'when they grow up'. This is the beginnings of goal setting. As adults we should try to encourage and develop these early ideas into the powerful belief that they can go for the big idea and that it will happen if they work for it.

How can we introduce our kids to the benefits of setting and achieving goals?

That's why we wrote 'Elli the Ant', the story of an ant who knew the importance of his task and stuck to it through many temptations and distractions. When children read the 'Elli the Ant', they find that you have to constantly work for your dreams despite the world around you. Your child will learn that achieving a dream benefits others as well as yourself - it is not just a selfish motivation.

Elli the Ant Montage from the book

Setting goals for kids

Goal setting isn’t just about jotting down some things you want done in your life.  It’s much more than that!  For kids, let’s make it really simple.  Goal setting for kids is a process that may be set out as follows:

SET AN EASY GOAL + TAKE ACTION EACH DAY = ACHIEVE RESULT
REPEAT


Goal setting may be something new to kids,  but just like brushing their teeth or studying every day, we want goal setting to be a habit for them.  So since they’re just starting out, it’s important to keep in mind that the emphasis should be on the process itself, not just on the end result which is the achievement of goals.  The idea with goal setting for kids is to get them started in the life-long frame of mind for thinking, planning and taking action to achieve results.

Goal setting tips
Make it easy on yourself. Start out with a simple, easily achieved Goal. Here's an example of a process which can be replicated to any level:

1) Find an easy goal which can be expressed clearly e.g. “After one month, I would have saved $15 so I can buy a Nerf Super Soaker."

2) Have your child write this on a piece of paper, you could stick a picture of the toy next to the words, and stick it up on the wall where it can be seen everyday.

3) Prepare a savings jar and have him/her calculate that they need to save 50c a day for 30 days to achieve their goal. It will help if you set aside the coins from the start.

4) Think of a special surprise for them if they manage to stick to the plan and achieve the goal.

Saving for the future is an important lesson which is not normally taught in school. There are some really helpful tips about saving and planning for the future here.

It's not just about saving money

Goals can be linked to anything.  Maybe he wants to get a better grade in Math, maybe she wants to be better at hockey.  Whatever the goal may be, it just needs to be as specific as possible.  e.g.  “I will make a maximum of five mistakes in every Math quiz in school for this first quarter,” is much better than just saying “I’d like a better grade in Math.”

Your child may not always get the results he wants.  It’s particularly hard when the goals concern academics or even extra-curricular activities where a lot of factors are involved. In sport, there may just be stronger and faster kids out there. 

Even if she hasn’t reached her ultimate goal, she still has learned a few valuable lessons about planning and goal setting and should have noticed measurable improvements along the way.  More important, she’s probably learned some things about herself. 

It’s also important to tell them not to lose faith when they fail to achieve a goal.  Life doesn’t always turn out as planned. 

Encourage them not give up on dreams that are important to them. 

If one plan doesn’t work out, revise the plan and try again, just like a mouse magician.

Thank you!

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David Machin
Author of 'The Star Dragon'

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